Friday, March 25, 2011

Connor Benjamin is here!

Connor Benjamin as born at 7:56 am on Tuesday, March 22nd! He weighed 8 pounds 4 ounces and was 19 1/2 inches long!

We are so thrilled that Connor is finally here! I wanted to make sure I wrote down his birth story soon so that I would not forget all the details! Sorry in advance for the length of this post! Here is what happened on Connor's birthday!

I had my weekly appointment scheduled for Monday, March 21st at 1:00. Since I was already dilated 3 1/2 cm the week before and had been having contractions all weekend I was hopeful that I would be dilated enough at my appointment that I would be sent to the hospital! My mom came over that morning and we planned to go to lunch and then for her to watch Mason while I went to my appointment. At about 11 that morning I went upstairs to finish packing my hospital bag and throw a few things in for Jared just in case my wish came true and we were sent to the hospital. Literally the minute I got upstairs I started having a really sharp pain in my left side followed by what seemed to be a strong contraction. Since I had been having Braxton Hicks for so long and so frequently I wasn't sure whether or not to take the pains seriously though. I continued to pack but after 30 minutes was still feeling the same way. I called Jared to tell him that this time I really thought maybe this was the beginning of something. The poor guy had heard this so many times over the past week I am sure he did not believe me though! I went downstairs to tell my mom too and decided I would just call my OB and see if I could come a little early to my appointment just to make sure everything was okay. I called and they told me to go straight to labor and delivery instead! Hoping this truly was the real thing we finished packing everything up and my mom, Mason and I headed to the hospital.

Jared met us there and once we checked in a nurse came a got us to take us to a delivery room. By this point I really felt like I was in labor. I was having contractions that were really frequent and totally different than any I had felt before. She told me that they would check to see how dilated I was then would wait an hour and a half to check again and I needed to have changed one centimeter at least. They also told me that since I was 37 weeks, they were not going to be able to help speed anything along and my body would have to do this on its own. When the nurse checked me, I was 4 centimeters and she confirmed I was having contractions every 2-3 minutes. After this we waited the hour and a half to be checked again. Long story short, after checking me two additional times I still had not made progress. I was starting to get discouraged because I knew I was in labor and these contractions were real but I didn't think they were going to let me stay at the hospital. After waiting five hours, I had finally reached 6 centimeters and we were officially told that this was it!

At this point I thought things would all be downhill and that Connor would be born that night! I went ahead and got the epidural and waited for things to happen hopefully fast. Things didn't exactly go as planned and I stayed at 6 cm for the next 10 hours! Thank goodness for the epidural because while the process was slow I at least wasn't in pain! At 4 am when I hadn't made progress they started me on pitocin. I remember my nurse telling me at this point things would really pick up and that most likely I would be having Connor before her shift was over! Things happened so fast at that point that the next thing I knew I was 10 cm and they were calling my dr so that I could start pushing! My doctor came and broke my water and confirmed that Connor was in the correct position for delivery! This was great news because Mason was "sunny side up" or face first and it made the pushing a lot more difficult. For whatever reason though by this time, I could really feel my contractions, and it seemed like the epidural had really worn off.

I started pushing at 7:00 and remember thinking it would probably only be a few minutes or so until he was out. Almost an hour later I was still pushing! The pushing was a lot worse than I remember with Mason. I could feel everything and it just seemed so exhausting. I'm sure the fact that I hadn't had food in the last 24 hours wasn't helping either! I remember at one point looking over at Jared and informing him that we definitely would not be having a third child! Haha...the jury is still out on that one now but seeing Connor definitely helped me forget about the pain. Finally after almost an hour of pushing, Connor was born at 7:56 am! I remember immediately everyone commenting about how much hair he had! Right away, they put him on my chest and I was crying and just so happy that he was healthy! He weighed 8 lbs 4 ounces and was 19 1/2 inches long! Thank goodness he was early!! My doctor said that if I had gone full term he would have been around 9 1/2 pounds. She too was so thankful he came when he did!

We spent the next few minutes loving on our new little boy then our families came in to meet him! Seeing Mason meet Connor was the sweetest moment! I had worried that the entire experience would just be overwhelming for him and that he would be scared but he handled it great! He immediately said "Hi Connor!" and gave him a hug and a kiss! I can't wait to watch these two grow up together and become best little buddies! We spent Tuesday night in the hospital and since everyone was doing well we were allowed to go home Wednesday! Here are some pictures from Connor's Birthday!


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Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Mason and Presley

Mason had a park "date" with Presley today. Its so cute to look back at pictures of these two over the last 22 months. They have been friends since they were born and have so much fun playing together.

They wanted to hold hands while they went down the slide:
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"Here's a flower Presley!"
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"Thanks for being my girlfriend!"
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I've had something planned every day this week and am trying to stay busy since I know we will be confined to the house for a few weeks once Connor decides to arrive! Speaking of Connor, I had an appointment on Monday and am now 3 1/2 centimeters! Its crazy to me that when my water broke with Mason and I went into labor I was only 1 centimeter! My dr. thinks that he could be born any day now so I definitely feel like a ticking time bomb wondering when it is going to happen! We are hoping to meet our little man soon!

Monday, March 7, 2011

Connor Update!

I can't believe that we are already preparing for little Connor's arrival! I will be 36 weeks on Wednesday and as of right now I am 2 centimeters dilated, 50% effaced and he is at a -1 station. I've been having tons of contractions which have seemed to be Braxton Hicks but are starting to really increase in intensity. I went ahead and scheduled an induction for the last week of March but my Dr. seemed pretty confident I would go before that! She also said that she wouldn't do anything to stop labor at this point! I would definitely prefer for him to make it until 37 weeks though! I'm secretly hoping for a St. Patty's day baby (March 17th!) Today I picked up some cute pj's for the hospital and also a gift for Mason to give Connor and a gift for Connor to give Mason. I've heard that really helps the older child feel included so I'm hoping it works! I'm planning to pack my hospital bag too, just in case! My next appointment is next Monday so I will keep everyone updated!

Friday, March 4, 2011

What a nice surprise!

One nice thing about having another boy is that I have SO much I can reuse. I saved all of Mason's clothes and they will even be the same season that Connor will wear them! With that said, I definitely didn't expect a shower for this time around. My sweet playgroup friends Amy and Elaina decided that they wanted to throw a "sprinkle" (smaller shower for your second baby) though for Shannon, another pregnant mommy in our group. and me. I was thinking it would be nice to get a few diapers and wipes to have on hand for Connor's arrival and definitely did not expect them to go as all out as they did! Thanks to the sweet and generous moms in our group we had an amazing cake, a super cute diaper wreath and cake, and so many wonderful and useful gifts! It was such a nice sprinkle and such a sweet surprise! Here's a few pictures from the day:

The adorable cake!
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The diaper wreath! I can't wait to hang this on the door at the hospital!
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Shannon (who is due in May) and me
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With Elaina and Amy- the sweet hostesses!
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All the pregnant mommies in our playgroup! Its crazy how many there are and we are even missing a couple people in this picture!
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Attempts at a group shot of all the kids...haha
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Mason with his two of his best buds Carter and Gavin:
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Such a fun day!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Boys will be boys!

Our playgroup had a pajama playdate last week and Mason and his best buddy Carter had tons of fun playing in Carter's tent. These two little guys are so cute together that I had to get it on video. Oh and please ignore Mason's too tight pj's and his shoes that he insisted on wearing with them!


Tuesday, February 22, 2011

34 Weeks!


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Pregnancy Highlights:

How Far Along
: 34 weeks! Its crazy that if baby brother comes as early as Mason did, he will be here in only THREE weeks! I can't even imagine having a newborn in three weeks!

Size of baby: About 5 pounds and 18 inches long!

Total Weight Gain/Loss: Enough that I have stopped looking at the scale!

Maternity Clothes: I'm wearing maternity shirts and trying to wear regular jeans with the bella band since maternity jeans just fit me weird. I'm wishing I could wear sweatpants all day every day though! It's the only thing thats comfortable anymore!

Gender: Boy! Connor Benjamin

Movement: I feel him ALL the time and its not kicks anymore. I literally feel his entire little body move across my belly. I constantly feel his bony little knee up by my belly button!

Sleep: I'm sleeping pretty good! I'll be really really happy to be reunited with back sleeping when this is over though!

Symptoms: I have been having tons of braxton hicks contractions. At first they were sporadic but now are getting more frequent and sometimes one after the other. Other than that I'm feeling really tired and achy but I guess that is normal for this stage of pregnancy.

What I miss: I found out the today is National Margarita Day so I'm definitely missing margaritas today!

Cravings: Sweets, chocolate milk

Best Moment this week: At my doctor appointment yesterday when we were listening to the heartbeat, Connor had the hiccups! It was the cutest little sound I have ever heard!

What I am looking forward to: Meeting our new little guy! It's getting so close!

Monday, January 31, 2011

Baby names and Mason at 21 months!

After months of going back and forth on names, we finally agreed on a name for our new baby boy!

Connor Benjamin Tye

We had tentatively decided on a few other names but would always change our mind because they just never seemed to fit! Connor was one of our top three choices for Mason so we figured since we have liked it that long, we should use it for baby brother! Mason picked up the name immediately and now refers to my tummy as "baby Connor."


On a completely different note I wanted to post some of my favorite things Mason is doing at 21 months! I say this for every month, but so far this truly is my absolute favorite age! He is just SO fun, has very few tantrums and is communicating with us so well! Here is what Mason is up to at 21 months:
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-He is in a very loving phase. He constantly comes up to me and says "Mommy hug!" or "Mommy kiss!" The other morning after his bath he gave me a long hug and then smiled at me and said "Mommy friend". This little guy has completely stolen my heart. I will be sobbing at his wedding one day knowing I won't be the only girl in his life anymore.

- He loves babies right now! The last two babies he has been around, he has wanted to hug, kiss, and rock. I'm hoping this keeps up for Connor's arrival!

- He seems to somewhat understand that he is going to be a big brother. He tells me there is baby in my tummy and understands that his old nursery is now Connor's room. This morning he was opening and closing the door to the nursery and saying "Hi Connor!" "Bye Connor!"

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- He loves all things boy. Dinosaurs, trucks, balls and trains are his very favorite things.

- He knows a lot of his colors, the names of most animals, and all of his body parts. He has started pointing out objects and saying their name and color now. He also recently started telling me what color shirt he wants to wear in the mornings. So far, yellow and green are the most often requested!

- He is a huge Sesame Street fan. Every morning when he wakes up he asks for milk and "Melmo."

- He absolutely loves playing with his friends. Anytime we leave a playdate he spends the entire ride home saying "more friends." Its so cute to watch him interact with other kids.

- He is still sleeping well in his big boy bed and his taking great naps! There have been many afternoons lately where he will nap for three hours! He must know that I really need the extra break right now!
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Happy 21 months little man!